Feeling Alone? How Nature Reminded Me That Standing Alone Is Also Standing Out
A mindful trail walk, a tiny pink flower, and a shift from isolation to inner strength
🧘 Insight on the Mat
Even though I wasn’t technically on the mat, I was in a mindful state of being—yoking my feelings to reshape my mind and staying open to universal advice. On this day, that wisdom came from Mother Nature.
A Walk with a Quiet Message
I’ve been feeling a little alone lately. Not the kind of lonely that begs for company—but the kind of quiet that settles in and makes you wonder if you still belong.
So I went for a walk.
There’s something about the trail that always softens my edges. Surrounded by green, with each step echoing breath and intention, I let myself just be. And that’s when I noticed something small but meaningful.
Among a patch of ferns and leaves was one tiny pink bloom—alone, yet utterly radiant. Tucked beside the more dominant yellow flowers and wide green foliage, it wasn’t trying to take up space. It was just being. Still, it drew my gaze.
Standing Alone = Standing Out
That one flower shifted something in me. I saw that it wasn’t separated—it was simply distinct. And in that distinction, it stood out.
It made me think: Maybe “alone” isn’t a problem. Maybe it’s a posture. A perspective. A quiet power.
A Sutra for the Mind
"Vitarka badhane pratipaksha bhavanam."
(Yoga Sutra 2.33 – When negative thoughts arise, cultivate the opposite.)
When I caught myself spinning a narrative of disconnection, I gently invited in the opposite connection. Presence. Beauty. And the trail responded with metaphor after metaphor, reminding me that nature doesn’t strive to fit in. It simply exists in harmony each part vital, each shape unique.
You Are Not Alone. You Are You.
If you’ve been feeling a bit off to the side lately, let me gently offer this:
Maybe you’re not on the sidelines. Maybe you’re the pink bloom.
We aren’t meant to be identical. We are meant to be whole.
And sometimes that means standing alone for a while… until we realize we’re exactly where we need to be.
Want to go deeper?
Click below to listen to Breathe Like the Wildflower: A mindful breath practice to transform loneliness into rooted presence. This guided audio is available throughout the month of June & July, a gentle invitation to reconnect with your breath, your body, and your sense of belonging.
💬 Let’s Reflect Together
Have you ever had a moment in nature (or in stillness) where something shifted for you? I’d love to hear about it in the comments.
And if this resonated, feel free to share with someone who may need the reminder: You are not alone. You are your own kind of beautiful.
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Such a lovely metaphor. Also that the pink bloom is welcome among the yellow ones. We can be alone but also in community.
I also find walks in nature give me that path to connection. I was walking along a bike path one day when a hawk flew up from the ground with a small rodent in its talons. I felt like I was connected to the circle of life. That life goes on around me. Even if I'm not a part of it, I'm in that experience.
I really loved hearing your voice and observations along your walk. There is so much to see!